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“There is only one happiness in life, to love and be loved.”–George Sand

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RED

This PDF article was sent to me by a reader who correctly thought it would be of interest to us here in the Philippines.

The full article can be read here

The Philippines loved Michael Jackson and he even toured Manila.

This video is infamous here in the Philippines. It shows the inmates of a CEBU prison doing that dance

My good friend Stephen Robert King has been to the Philippines so many times over the last few years,  and now write in his new E book a 40 page description of the differences and the challenges that ex pats  and the local guys have to overcome, in order to try and get a worthwhile relationship.

The cultures are NOT the same, and the challenges are real.

This book will give you ( from Stephens own experience), the chance to get to know  the pitfalls and the delights that the beautiful people of the Philippines. ITS A MUST READ.

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I came acrooss a very good article about the Supreme court in Manila saying that being gay is NOT a reason for annulment.

Th article comes from the INQUIRER and the lnk below will take you to the whole article.

MANILA, Philippines — Being gay is not a valid ground to have one’s marriage annulled; hiding such a fact is.

The Supreme Court made this ruling as it reversed a decision by the Las Piñas City Regional Trial Court to annul a couple’s 11-year marriage after the wife claimed her husband was a homosexual.

In a 21-page ruling dated August 28, the Court’s 3rd Division said the lower court erred in declaring the marriage void from the start because it took into account solely the husband’s alleged homosexuality per se without being presented with proof that he had concealed it from his wife.

In restoring the marriage of the couple (whose identities the Inquirer is withholding for the sake of their minor children), the Court said the lower court misinterpreted Article 46 of the Family Code of the Philippines that allows annulment when the consent of either party is obtained by fraud, such as concealment of homosexuality.

“surprised by the suit.   WHOLE ARTICLE

gay friendly philippines

The following article has been sent in by a reader and I look forward to more from him.

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Living into this world that full of questions can complicate the individual mind of a human being. Have we ever asked ourselves if what is the other side of being a human? Have we give an importance to them?

When I was 11 years old I always noticed that I have a feeling that I can’t explain. And I often wonder why?

A year after it is the time for my secondary level. And my mind was to going up, I was confused of myself for the feelings that I hide always. It was a big mistake of what I am doing. I am afraid to show the real me because my parents will get angry and people around me will be shock for the changes that I used to have. That’s why I have to pretend every time of my life.

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MANILA, Philippines- Wearing drag at a private event may be harmless fun in many societies, but 72 Filipino men found out they could suffer imprisonment and lashing in Saudi Arabia for such activities after they were arrested for immorality recently.

An article in the Arabic news site www.sabq.org said several “deviants,” a term used by Saudi Arabia’s English-language media to describe people who engage in gay behavior, were rounded up during a concert inside a compound in an eastern Riyadh neighborhood.

The report quoted unnamed police officials as saying a “large number of foreign workers” was arrested in the incident, and 72 of them have Philippine citizenship.

Vice Consul Roussel Reyes of the Philippine Embassy in Riyadh told GMANews.TV by phone on Tuesday that they are still confirming the identities of the Filipinos and will seek their employers’ help to bail them out.

here is the full article

Now when I was growing up in the 1970s in fun filled UK, I really was not that happy. Whilst everyone was at Discos and great parties I tried not to go to avoid the girls, all of them. I was reasonably cute as a kid and attracted women all the time and I loved the company and companionship of going out with the girls.

The problem?  Well I was so scared that one of these girls would be able to find out I was Gay, and I was hiding that from everyone in the world , even sometimes hiding it from myself. Outwardly I had everything I had great friends and I was the life and fun of the party and all my mates would be jealous of the fact that I was able to have ease of communication with all the girls,(f only they knew what the turmoil was inside me day after day, making sure I never let anything slip).

I remember at that time that being Gay was still taboo and it had only been “legal” to be gay for less than a decade , so to announce you were gay was  to bring smae to yourself your friends and family. I did everything to ensure NO ONE knew even by ridiculing guys that were obvious gays,however I never joined in the “queer bashing” but I did not step in either much to my enternal shame!!

I loved to get so drunk and pretend to pass out so that my friends would understand why I could not end up in bed with the girls like they did, they honestly thought I was missing out and felt sorry for me, but truth been known it was a great cover and avoided that male to female sex thing.

But sometimes it just could not be avoided with some horrible consequences.

Thats a story for another time.

Gay Filipino professor wins political asylum after revealing a 30-year secret of sexual abuse
Submitted by NewsSystem on Mon, 06/08/2009 – 20:10 Mercury News Headlines
Philip Belarmino, a 43-year old English professor from the Philippines fought deportation after overstaying a visitor’s visa. In a stunning courtroom revelation, he testified that he was repeatedly sexually abused by other boys in Manila, and he feared being forced to return to the Philippines.A San Francisco immigration judge granted him political asylum.

FULL STORY HERE